Category: Relationships

The Enemy of Fulfillment

The enemy of fulfillment is…. Instant gratification… that comes to us primarily through…. I hate to say it, but it’s true…. don’t write me off

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The Benefits of Aging

I spent last weekend with three of my best friends from college. It’s been 14 years since the four of us have been together and

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Pandemic Marriage

“How can I miss you when you won’t go away?” There is a beer cozy at the place we vacation that says this. I always

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Vulnerability Ceiling

Safety is overrated. Or, it might be over valued. I work with a lot of couples doing the hard work of counseling that are waiting

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Only Kindness Matters…..

I came across a really interesting article about how marriages succeed or fail. “Research…has show that kindness (along with emotional stability) is the most important

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Know What You Know

If you are in therapy with me very long, you will probably hear one of my mantras: KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW. We humans are often

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The Enemy of Fulfillment

The enemy of fulfillment is…. Instant gratification… that comes to us primarily through…. I hate to say it, but it’s true…. don’t write me off

Read More »

The Benefits of Aging

I spent last weekend with three of my best friends from college. It’s been 14 years since the four of us have been together and

Read More »

Pandemic Marriage

“How can I miss you when you won’t go away?” There is a beer cozy at the place we vacation that says this. I always

Read More »

Vulnerability Ceiling

Safety is overrated. Or, it might be over valued. I work with a lot of couples doing the hard work of counseling that are waiting

Read More »

Only Kindness Matters…..

I came across a really interesting article about how marriages succeed or fail. “Research…has show that kindness (along with emotional stability) is the most important

Read More »

Know What You Know

If you are in therapy with me very long, you will probably hear one of my mantras: KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW. We humans are often

Read More »